I have large breast. I want to know if this bothers you as much as it does me?? I am in denial in so many ways (that I am not as big as I really am)... are there any more women out there that feel this way and how do you handle the pressure? Do people look at your breast before they look at your eyes?
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I completely understand how you feel. I have larger breasts and am always self conscious about them. My trick is to get clothes that make me comfortable. Also make sure you have the right size bra, for awhile I was in denial and wearing a bra that was to small, so when i had a shirt on they looked even bigger. But to tell you the truth the only thing that is going to make you feel better is to accept that you have larger breasts. It is something we have to accept and work on becoming comfortable with.
I've been dealing with this since I was 13. It got to the point that I would say "my eyes are up here, not in my chest". Men would get really embarrassed! LOL - I often thought of getting reduction surgery but why should I go through all that pain just because certain people are rude jerks? I guess I've just accepted what I have. I found a husband who is never disrespectful about my body and this helped me out a lot. I know embarrassing others isn't exactly the most mature thing to do when they are staring but it put a stop to it most of the time. Stick with people in your life who don't stare and see you for who you really are! And, if someone makes a rude comment, say something like, "Did you go to the rude store and stock up on rude?" LOL - After awhile I hope you don't take these people seriously. They are jerks and are so not worth your time or effort.
I, too, have large breasts. Luckily, I have not had the physical problems that some women with large breasts have -- it has not made by back hurt and I don't have pain in my shoulders from bra straps digging in. Nevertheless, it is not always easy. I think I have experienced all of the things you speak of, and I have found that when I don't obsess over it or worry about it, I can overlook the stupid reactions and the idiotic people who act a fool. Try to focus on the overall picture of who you are -- remember, there are lots of women (probably more than the ones who have our 'problem') who are flat-chested and actually get SURGERY and sometimes get mutilated, just because they want large breasts. Just be a lady, enjoy your femininity and don't let the jerks get you down. Check out all the old-time movie stars who were pin-up girls and had fun with being all woman and glamorous! Have fun with it and lighten up!
I am a 36 G cup.
yes it pees me off, the back ache etc.
I got a tee shirt saying please talk to my face!
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